Our life is in our hand

In the description of the about of my blog, I don't know if it appears but, I wrote, "on my wy to find myself".
Why?? Because, actually, I know I don't really know myself.
When I asked to myself: "what I want?", I answer to myself: "I don't know".

I noticed that we always encourage the people who know what they want to do - And what about us who don't know - so the people like me have to find their way home (one self. I mean finding your you) alone.

It's hard, it's long, it takes to you to be true to yourself and to the others.
Being happy with what you do, and be accountable for it.
Living for yourself without forgeting the social aspect.
No the social aspect is not facebook.
The social aspect represents the part of the society that counts on you (orphans, low income/no income citizen who struggle)
Since Yesterday, I am thinking about how one self has to live his life and I came out with 5 (five) element. You could consider it as your equivalent of Shakra.
these elements are:
                                         Family
                                        Social (i.e. Social responsibility)
                                        Religion
                                        Fitness / health
                                        Work / knowlegde
Meditate about them, find each of them significance according to your emotion, sensitivity, perception.
To me, taking it each into consideration, help us balance our lives.
Right now; as I am writing down, I feel like giving it all to satisfy this desire of sharing, sharing dayly experience (dayly not daily - dayly is my nickname daylypeace).


The title of this post: "our life is in our hand" has been inspired by the "goodbye article" of Necole who own the website Necole bitchie.
Here is the link, I cannot translate this to you: Necole open letter

Dear Future Generations: Sorry

I think this gut should get a nobel prize

Well realized video, great text,...

Thank you

My 2014's last hours message

   Durant l’intervalle des trente derniers jours de l’année 2014, mes réflexions tournaient beaucoup autour de l’humilité.

Why??

 - I have no idea.

Un groupe musicale a beaucoup fait partie de mes playlists; le groupe « Destiny’s Child ».

Je n’ai jamais été grande fan de Beyonce, mais je ne peux m’empêcher de l’admirer.

Why ??

-          -  She kept on fighting, doing what she thought was her way to go. Starting by Girls Tyme, to destiny’s child, to Beyoncé … to Mrs. Carter lol.

     You may not catch the link with humility.

Well, all of us have dream, we hear every time that it’s not easy at all to get to the final destination (by the way, is there a final destination, as we keep on targeting farer).

Yes, we wonder that pursuing a dream is not easy, but we may not accept sometimes to start from the bottom, it may not be humility issue but expectations that are too high.

At the end of the day, when we make decision we should be happy with it.

Talking about humility, I think it helps in being a survivor by accepting to lose games, and keep on trying hard.

It does not mean that we should to bow down in front of people but rather, to know when we need to put our pride aside.

I hope I have been able to explain my feelings.

« Quand l’orgueil chemine devant, honte et dommages suivent de près. »   

- Gabriel Meurier

" When pride walks before , shame and damage are following closely . »

- Gabriel Meurier

Peace!!